A fairytale wedding looks deceptively simple, but detailed organisation
behind the scenes is what ensures that effect.
Wedding traditions
Honouring weddings in a special way goes back for thousands of years.
Brides in ancient Rome wore a white dress with a bright red veil. This was
followed by a religious ceremony and a feast. Traditional Japanese brides
wear three wedding robes - a white kimono, a coloured kimono, and a white
dress and veil. Again there is a religious ceremony and a feast. For
traditional Christian weddings there is a ceremony in the church and a
wedding feast to follow. The bride wears a white dress and veil, and
carries flowers. Usually she has attendants, sometimes including young
children.
The 'fairy tale wedding"
The wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer - 'the fairy tale
wedding' as it was billed - attracted world wide television audiences and
created a pattern for the bride to be like a princess on her special day.
Stone churches, pipe organ music, and beautiful ornate white dresses
continue to be part of the dreams of young women all round the world. This
is the type of wedding many young couples want.
Outdoor weddings
Some couples prefer outdoor weddings, in a setting which has special
meaning for them. Most follow the wedding with a honeymoon and want to
spend it amid beautiful scenery where they can sightsee or enjoy outdoor
recreation.
New Zealand a favourite place to marry and honeymoon
For many young couples round the world New Zealand seems the ideal place
for their wedding and their honeymoon, but organising a wedding from a
distant country is a daunting task.
Vanessa Leeming's research
As part of her tourism course at Lincoln University near Christchurch
Vanessa researched the links between tourist travel and weddings. This was
the starting point for Cashmere Heights weddings. She saw the potential
for an exciting new venture offering wedding planning to overseas
couples.
Establishment of Cashmere Heights Weddings
She shared her idea with Gary Cody and together they established 'Cashmere
Heights Weddings' which would offer a full service for a wedding of the
couple's choice. They began the service four years ago and the client
numbers have steadily increased until they are now very busy from spring to
autumn each year. They found time to talk to me because the pressure of
work eases in the winter!
Vanessa Leeming - Managing Director
The task which Vanessa has in this role is no easy one. Her education in
New Zealand and Japan, her fluency in the Japanese language, and her
business training at Lincoln University from which she graduated with a
Bachelors Degree in Commerce and Management (BCM) gave her valuable skills
with which to build the new business.
Problems with promotion
As with any new venture she and Gary needed to be patient. It takes time
to become known. When you are aiming to attract clients from all around
the world - Europe, the United States of America and Asia, especially Japan
- advertising in papers and magazines would be a prohibitive cost and
extremely difficult to target.
The Internet the solution
Establishing a site on the World Wide Web through Plain Communication's
CyberMall New Zealand
has given the company international publicity which has drawn
clients from all round the world. Couples from the U.S., Europe and Japan
are booking their weddings well in advance. When I was in their office
Gary had just received an Email request from a client in the US for a
winter wedding for 1999 - perhaps from skiers. Email from Japanese couples
is a regular occurrence.
New Web site
A new expanded web site highlights the special services offered and its
intricate design entices the visitor to explore each aspect. Visit the
site at:
http://www.chc-weddings.co.nz/
Brochures in colour
Those who email are sent brochures with beautiful coloured illustrations
which capture the beauty of the wedding - from the wedding dress to the
church and the venue for the champagne celebration that follows.
From Paris to Christchurch
Perhaps their most surprising request is from a couple living in Paris, but
wanting to be married in Christchurch. Perhaps Christchurch with its
annual Festival of Romance in February is catching up on Paris as 'the city
of romance'!!
The suite at the Chateau on the Park
The business at first operated from premises in the city, but Vanessa's
research had shown that there would be strong advantages in linking with a
hotel. What could be more appropriate for a fairy tale wedding hotel than
the Chateau with its old-style architecture and echoes of mediaevalism.
Since Cashmere Heights moved into the suite in the hotel there has been
close cooperation with the staff of the Chateau. The arrangement is
beneficial to both businesses.
A stress-free wedding
So many brides find the weeks of preparing for a wedding highly stressful
and are tired when the great day comes. They are assured that there will
be none of these problems for clients of Cashmere Heights. Everything will
be taken care of.
Organisation and time and team management skills
Having promised clients a stress-free wedding Vanessa has to see that all
the detailed arrangements are taken care of, and to do this she has to use
her team management skills to ensure that tasks of the different staff
members and contracted specialists are coordinated in a tight time
schedule.
The team
Vanessa as hostess for the day - greeting the bride and bridegroom
The couple arrive at the Chateau on the Park beside Christchurch's
beautiful Hagley Park and go to the Cashmere Heights suite and are
welcomed.
Staff to dress the bride and groom
Some brides, especially from Europe or the U.S., bring their own dresses.
Mostly the bride makes her choice among exquisite wedding dresses and veils
made in New Zealand or imported from Italy, the U.S, Australia and Japan.
These can be hired.
The bride can also choose her shoes and her pantihose. Jewellery,
including pearls and tiaras, is available for hire or purchase.
The bridegroom is able to hire his choice of morning suit or dinner
suit, tuxedo, shirt and cravat or bow tie.
A costumer to ensure a perfect fit.
The sizes range from very small (Japanese 6) to size 18 and a costumer is
available to make any needed alterations. Staff in the beauty salon attend
to the bride's hair and make-up.
The florist
The bride's choice of bouquet and the bridegroom's buttonhole are made from
fresh flowers.
The clergyman or marriage celebrant to give the blessing or a Christian
marriage service
Couples wanting a Christian wedding are married in a church of the
denomination of their choice and the minister or priest of that church
takes the service.
Those who are not Christians but who want a Christian blessing in the
church are often married in the beautiful old Durham Street Methodist
Church or in the Cashmere Presbyterian Church - both built in grey stone.
Others are married outdoors, perhaps on the beach, in a lovely garden, or
on a hill overlooking the plains, the harbour or the sea, with a minister
or celebrant taking the service.
Attendants
If they would like children as attendants Cashmere Heights arranges this
too - a page boy and a flower girl. The ring may be brought forward on a
velvet cushion by the page boy.
Drivers
Transport to the church and to the celebration that follows is again
organised as the wedding pair choose - taxi, limousine, or horse-drawn
carriage.
Organist
As the couple enters the church the traditional wedding march, 'Here comes
the bride" is played on the church's pipe organ. After the ceremony the
couple sign a wedding certificate, and they leave to the sound of the
trumpet voluntary - again music full of associations with weddings down the
years.
Staff to arrange the hospitality at the Cashmere Heights home
After the ceremony the couple travel to one of the beautiful venues on the
Cashmere Hills used by Cashmere Heights. Here they eat nibbles, are
toasted in champagne and presented with a travellers'-size wedding cake to
take home with them.
Tour guides and interpreters
Some couples want to follow the wedding with a tour around Christchurch and
an interpreter is available to give an appropriate commentary. Some of
the languages used have included German, Japanese, Korean,
Cantonese/Mandarin, and Spanish.
Photographers
Throughout all this the photographer is never absent. A wonderful
pictorial record is made up from the pictures of this fairytale wedding and
the album is delivered to the couple's hotel suite the same evening.
Christchurch and its environs provide a wonderful backdrop for these
pictures.
Some couples wish to have a video made to record the occasion.
Flexibility
Not only does Vanessa have to manage this large team and cope with the
problems that occur from time to time. She also has to cope with the
requirements of other types of celebrations.
The types of weddings described are the most popular among Cashmere
Heights' clients, but the aim of the business is to satisfy the clients'
wishes, whatever they may be. That may mean new challenges for Vanessa in
organising a different type of celebration in a different venue.
Travelling and organising at a distance
To cope with the varied requests of clients Cashmere Heights Weddings has
expanded its operations and now operates a branch in Parnell, Auckland, and
at Millbrook in Queenstown.
Weddings are also offered at The Church of the Good Shepherd at Lake Tekapo
with the backdrop of the lake and the mountains.
The satisfactions
Vanessa and her team have the satisfaction of working together to give many
couples a very special carefree day - the joy of a fairytale wedding and
the memory of a day relived in beautiful photography.
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